understanding life partner

In establishing relationships need mutual understanding and trust. If you both already have a good understanding, Simply by seeing couples. he will know what is on your mind.

Here are some ways to learn to understand each other.

receive pair

A relationship can fail because of the desire and passion. If you want to change your spouse

it is a problem Learn to accept your partner, It will help you develop a bond that has existed. Do not want something that can not happen. It can not change overnight. Respect your partner like what she And you will feel grateful to be with him.

Arguing when needed

Debating small things can lead to bigger fights. It is important to known, debating whether it is necessary or not. If you shout to your couple for no reason, then eventually you and your partner will miss love. You certainly do not want that to happen right? Arguing with couple only when needed. Learn to be more patient.

3.       Do not expect

A better understanding begins from realization. Do not expect things that might not happen. When you expect something, You certainly want it to happen. When that does not happen, You will feel disappointed. This is what can affect your relationship in a bad way. Accept the situation and try to continue. This will help you be in the perfect relationship.

4.       Change habits not the person

Misunderstandings or fights often occur because of habit. Try changing your habits that annoy she, do not try to change she. If you dedicate your time to your partner certainly she will realize your importance. It then will get you closer to your partner.

5.       Believe with the couple

Most young couples now facing problems because they tend to suspect their partner at any time. However, suspicion could only damage the relationship. So that the relationship is always evolving, very necessary mutual trust. Trust is important because the foundation of a good relationship. If you do not trust your partner how you would share your feelings with him ?

Believe with your partner.  As time goes on, the better understanding of the relationship.

6.       Do not hide anything

Be honest and do not lie. Do not lie to your spouse about anything. Be honest and do not hide anything. Even if the truth will hurt your partner, tell the truth. Lies will hurt more than the truth. This is the best way to develop an understanding and communication in a relationship.

7.       Spend time together

Spend time with your mate. You are busy but have to dedicate time for the sake of getting nearby relationship. The more time you spend with your mate, the better you are abiding in the relationship.

Sarjana Ekonomi Terjebak Jadi IT Pabrik

Sarjana Ekonomi Terjebak Jadi IT Pabrik. lama juga nih jari jemari tidak di latih buat tulis menulis di blog. terakhir tahun 2013 sekarang sudah 2015 dua tahun mengilang dan sempet tidak mau masuk ke dunia tulis menulis di blog lagi. ternyata kemalasaan itu datang dari mana aja ya.

setelah warnet gulung tikar jadi akses internet sudah tidak ada makin males aja musti ngeluarin uang buat nulis di blog ke warnet sebelah, bukan kekik ke yang punya warnetnya tapi terhalang karna uang hehe....

sebenarnya ada sih laptop di rumah, ya walau jadul tapi masih mampu lah bersaing buat tulis menulis mah. cuman laptopnya tiba-tiba rusak gituh aja. akses internet udah pasang yang slogannya Tel** S*ep*y Lemotnya Luar Biasa !!! malah di pake buat handphone saja.

entah ada angin apa udah dua tahun pakum dunia tulis menulis jadi semangat lagi. 

sebenarnya sih pengen nulis karna adsense hehehe bos di kantor selalu ngajakin buat kerjasama main adsense padahal jiwa ini sudah tidak mau lagi menulis.

oh ya saya sekarang sudah kerja jadi IT di salah satu pabrik garment di kab, subang. padahal ijazah sarjanan ekonomi manajemen hehe... tadinya sih dapat info dari temen IT juga cuman beda pabrik, ngasih tau kalau ada lowongan It, cuman modal pengalaman jadi teknisi warnet sendiri coba-coba ngelamar ke pabrik. eh... malah keterima. 

perasaan agak gimana gituh ya. sarjana ekonomi jadi It. dalam pikir saya pasti akan ada keganjilan nih hehehe.... tapi demi anak istri kenapa gak coba aja, betul gak ? mumpung nambah pengalaman dan menambah kedewasaan diri. secara saya belum terjun langsung ke dunia kerja setelah lulus kuliah. saya hanya membuka usaha kecil-kecilan di tempat tinggal usaha warnet. 

ya walaupun selama perjalanan kerja karna salah jurusan sih banyak suka dukanya. tapi suka dukanya selalu menghilang dan bertambah semangat setelah melihat anak istri. dalam pikir saya jalani ini saja dulu sambil menunggu pekerjaan yang sesuai jurusan kuliah dulu heheh....

di marahin senior karna kerja salah menjadi hal yang biasa, saya anggap sebagai angin malam masuk keperut dan di kerokin istri abis pulang kerja keluar semua. hehehe..... saya sih sadara kalau saya sebenarnya terdampar di pekerjaan yang menantang juga sih sebenarnya, keluar jalur dari apa yang saya pelajari di kampus dulu.

saya sih bersyukur coba kalau coba-coba masuk ngelamar kerja jadi guru matematika, bisa kena tamparan bertubi-tubi hehehe. ya walaupun hati ini cepet pindah cari kerjaan yang saya kuasai tapi mungkin tuhan ingin saya jalani ini dulu sebagai IT Ekonomi heheh

kayanya udah malam besok saya musti kerja nih pagi-pagi saya sambung besok deh ceritanya. ok ok ok